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Neonatal: Caring for Premature Babies

A normal pregnancy lasts for 40 weeks. If a baby is born three or more weeks early, she is considered premature. Babies born close to 37 weeks usually do not have many problems, but babies born between 32 and 37 weeks may need to stay in the hospital's Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) to receive help eating, breathing, staying warm, and continuing to develop before going home. Babies born before 32 weeks are the most likely to have serious problems and may have to stay in the NICU for an extended period of time.

Preterm babies must often be tube-fed or even fed intravenously (through a vein) because they cannot eat on their own. Others need ventilators to help them breathe. Premature babies also can have difficulties staying warm, so they are kept in heated beds called isolettes.

A neonatologist is a doctor who specializes caring for preterm babies. If the hospital you choose to deliver your baby at has a NICU on-site, you will be introduced to the staff neonatologist. If your baby needs to be moved to another hospital, you can ask your ob/gyn for a reference or you can find a doctor on the Revolution Health web site.

Check out ParentDish to learn about amazing premature babies and Pregnancy & Birth.

Chinese Birth Calendar: What Is It?

The Chinese Birth Calendar is a chart that can be used to predict your baby's gender by inputting the mother's age and the month of conception.


This method is considered by some to be 99 percent accurate -- however, you must convert both your age and the month of conception to the Chinese calendar. The Chinese calendar combines the lunar and solar systems, which makes it different from the Western Gregorian calendar. Chinese Fortune Calendar web site allows you to convert your age and to convert the month of conception. The site also has an online converter which adjusts both your age and the month of conception at once to predict your baby's gender with one click.

Although many claim this gender predictor are accurate, it's not a scientific method. It can, however, be another great baby prediction game to play during your pregnancy.

To learn about other baby prediction games, check out ParentDish's Pregnancy and Birth section.

Michelle Obama, A Really Close Second





Where do you fall in the priority line-up in your family? If you're like most women, you put everyone else first. Michelle Obama has a better approach; she puts herself "a really close second" after her kids.

In an interview with Katie Couric for Glamour magazine's Woman of the Year issue, the First Lady said it was much more difficult to find a work-family balance when she was a senator's wife. Now that she's in the White House, with all its accompanying staff support, life has gotten easier.

While we all can't have that 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue address, Obama encourages moms to reach out and ask for help where they can find it.

Do you agree with this advice?

Kate Gosselin: Celebrity, Mother, Author

Kate Gosselin is a wife, mother and author who became a celebrity once she began taping the TLC show "Jon and Kate Plus Eight." Kate and her husband, Jon Gosselin, are parents to eight children -- fraternal twins Cara and Madelyn, born in 2000, and sextuplets Alexis, Hannah, Aaden, Collin, Leah and Joel, born in 2004.

Kate Gosselin was born Katie Irene Kreider on March 28, 1975, in Hershey, Penn. The second of four children born to Kenton and Charlene Kreider, Kate Gosselin graduated from the Reading Hospital and Medical Center School of Nursing as a registered nurse.

Kate Gosselin met Jon Gosselin in 1997, and the couple married on June 12, 1999. In 2000, after Kate was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome, the couple turned to fertility treatments to have a child.

After the birth of twins Cara and Madelyn, the couple decided to have another child and again underwent fertility treatments. In 2003, Kate Gosselin learned she was pregnant with seven embryos and doctors suggested selective reduction. She refused and on May 10, 2004, Kate Gosselin gave birth to six children.

Kate Gosselin and her husband Jon made their first television appearance in 2004 on an NBC special called "Home Delivery." Other specials followed and in April 2007, "Jon and Kate Plus 8" began airing as a regular series on TLC.

"Jon and Kate Plus Eight" continued for eight seasons until 2009. At that time, Kate Gosselin and Jon Gosselin announced on the show that their marriage was over and that divorce proceedings had begun. After the couple separated, "Jon and Kate Plus 8" continued filming with a new focus on Kate Gosselin's life as a single mother to eight children. On September 29, 2009, production of the show was halted indefinitely after Jon Gosselin demanded that TLC cease and desist filming at the couple's Pennsylvania home.

In addition to the reality series and various other television appearances, Kate Gosselin is the author of three books, "Multiple Blessings," "Eight Little Faces," and "Love is in the Mix: Making Meals into Memories."

Read about other amazing parents on ParentDish.

Mother of Baby Run Over By Train Credits Harness And God For Saving Son's Life

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In a heart-stopping split second, an Australian mother watches as her 6-month-old son rolls onto a train track and under an oncoming train -- and escapes with just a scratch.

It could happen to any parent -- you release the brake on the stroller to prepare to board the train, and it rolls away from you. For Shweta Verma, a 29-year-old mother and dentist who lives in Melbourne, it is a nightmare that keeps replaying in her head and on TV, thanks to a surveillance camera that captured the entire terrifying episode on film.

Verma told Today's Matt Lauer about the terrifying moment when her son, Saurish, rolled onto the tracks as a train sped through the station. The video shows her horror as she helplessly watches her baby disappears under it.

Young Phillies Fans Give Up World Series Tickets To Help Others

Alex and Ben Burman of Wallingford, Pa., gave up World Series tickets to help school children. Credit: NBC Philadelphia



What boys would give up the chance to go to the World Series?

That would be Alex and Ben Burman of Wallingford, Pa. The two middle schoolers and Phillies fans had tickets to Game 4 of the World Series. They had great seats too -- Diamond Club seats worth about $3,500, according to StubHub.com.

Still, they went to the World Series last year. And the money they could raise by selling the tickets could do a lot of good in the world.

Presidential Parenting: Which Commander-in-Chief is Like Your Head-of-Household?



Sasha and Malia Obama are the first preteens to live in the White House since Amy Carter, but they're just the latest in a long line of kids who have called 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. home. With the holidays around the corner, we took a look at White House family life and presidential pops.

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

If a pregnant woman drinks during her pregnancy, she runs the risk of giving her unborn child fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS). Consumption of alcohol during pregnancy does not always lead to FAS. Doctors are unsure exactly how much alcohol can cause problems, but they agree that consuming any alcohol is unsafe. They advise pregnant women and those attempting to become pregnant to avoid alcohol.

When alcohol is consumed, it crosses the placental barrier and can stunt the growth of the fetus. It can also cause atypical facial features (a flat face with narrow eye openings) and damage brain structures and neurons. Permanent brain damage is often common because developing brain cells and neurons become malformed from the alcohol exposure.

As the child ages, he or she can show other emotional, physical, mental and/or behavioral problems. This can cause attention-deficit disorder, poor memory, poor cause-effect reasoning and impulsive behavior.

Unlike at other times in life, the fetal brain is constantly developing, meaning there is no "safe" time to drink alcohol while pregnant.

Head to AOL Health to learn more about fetal alcohol syndrome.

Captain Underpants: Adventure-Book Hero

An award-winning adventure book series by American author Dav Pilkey, "Captain Underpants" is about two fourth-graders named George and Harold who accidentally hypnotize their school principal into becoming an underwear-clad superhero by using a 3-D Hyno-Ring.

All they need to do is snap their fingers, and he is instantly transformed into Captain Underpants in which hilarity, kid-style, ensues. This best-selling series is a huge hit with elementary school kids everywhere. Scholastic even has a website dedicated to the hero, filled with games and a parents' guide. Children who like the "Captain Underpants" books also might enjoy Pilkey's "Ricky Ricotta's Might Robot."

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Who is America's Most Stylish Blogger?

Moms get a bad reputation when it comes to fashion, but one Oregon mother is casting her chapeau in the ring for the title of America's Most Stylish Blogger.

The contest, hosted by our sister site StyleList, kicked off this week with eight women vying for the top honor. These brave souls all took the same clothing item -- a navy gabardine boyfriend vest -- and dressed it up or down according to their own personal style.

For the next few weeks, style guru Kelly Cutrone, owner of People's Revolution and co-star of MTV's reality shows "The Hills" and "The City," will judge the ladies' looks. We're rooting for Carly J. Cais, an Oregon mom and fashion blogger who daringly paired blue tie-dye leggings with the vest. Cais admitted that the look was a risk, and it didn't win her any points with Cutrone -- the fashion guru said she didn't dislike the outfit, but she didn't like it, either.

Click here to watch the video challenge on StyleList>>>>>>>>>

We can't wait to see what else Cais has in store. Tune in and pick up some fashion pointers; don't be That Mom who grocery shops in her ratty old sweats. (And please keep it on the down low when you see us dressed in said sweats.)

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22 Weeks Pregnant: What happens?

At 22 weeks pregnant, an expectant mother is in the middle of her second trimester and may start to feel some movement in the womb. The baby is approximately 10 inches and nearly a pound. Her organs are developing at a rapid rate and she may now be moving her limbs and exploring her face. Lips, eyelids and eyebrows are more defined and although her eyes have formed, the iris lacks pigment.

Thanks to a surge of hormones, there are lots of changes for mom too. Her hair is more lustrous and her nails are growing at a more rapid rate. Stretch marks usually appear around this time and skin may take on different textures or shades due to increased melanin. Nipples and areolas often get darker and larger. Some women's feet begin to swell at this point, often going up a half or whole shoe size.

Expectant moms should have had a triple screen test by now, which is a blood test that may detect possible fetal abnormalities like spina bifida and Down syndrome. Next up? The glucose test at 24 to 28 weeks, which checks for gestational diabetes.

Learn more about prenatal care and the second trimester at AOL Health.

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12 Weeks Pregnant: What Happens?

As your near the end of the first trimester of your pregnancy, your baby is changing rapidly and you may begin to notice differences in your own body. By the end of the 12th week, your baby is about is about 3.15 inches long and weighs about one ounce.

What's happening to your baby? This week, your baby's facial features take on a more normal appearance as the eyes and ears move closer to their final positions. Your baby's kidneys may have begun to secrete urine and nerve cells are multiplying at a rapid rate. Your baby is developing more complex reflexes and may begin sucking. Stimulating certain points of your uterus may cause your baby to move, but you won't feel the movement for several more weeks.

What's happening to mom? You probably don't need maternity clothes at this point, but your uterus has expanded to the point where your doctor can feel it in your lower abdomen. You may begin to notice changes in your skin including a darkening of the areola and the appearance of dark patches on your face and neck.

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Labor and Delivery: What You Need to Know

Labor and delivery are the final stages of pregnancy when a woman gives birth to a child. The process of labor and delivery typically begins about 38 weeks after conception or 40 weeks from a woman's last missed period. Some pregnancies may be weeks longer or shorter than a typical pregnancy.

Labor generally refers to the uterine contractions a woman experiences just prior to giving birth. The process of going into labor can be broken down into five distinct stages: Lightening, passing of the mucus plug, contractions, water breaking and effacement and dilation of the cervix. Not all women experience labor in the same way and not all of these stages will be apparent to a expecting mother.

Lightening is the process of the baby settling lower in the pelvis just prior the onset of contractions. The mucus plug is an accumulation of secretions which protect the uterus by forming a barrier within the cervical canal. Contractions are defined as the tightening and shortening of the uterine muscles during labor which lead to effacement and dilation of the cervix. Water breaking refers to the rupture of the amniotic sac, which has protected the baby throughout the pregnancy. Effacement and dilation refers to the stretching and opening of the cervix that occurs to prepare for the passage of the baby through the birth canal.

Delivery is simply the state of being delivered or giving birth to a child. As with labor, not all women will experience delivery in the same way or by the same method. Vaginal delivery is the most common and safest type of childbirth. This involves the baby passing through the birth canal and out the vagina. In some cases, a vaginal delivery is not possible and a cesarean delivery may be necessary to protect the health of the baby and the mother. A cesarean delivery, also known as a C-section, involves delivering the baby through a surgical incision made through the mother's abdominal wall and uterus.

Learn more about prenatal care on AOL Health.

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Sex Ed: When Is the Right Time to Have 'The Talk'?



A good friend told me the best parenting advice she ever got: Your child will let you know what she is ready for. So, don't buy her a bike for her birthday if she hasn't asked for one; wait until she expresses a desire for a bike, then buy the bike.

Last Christmas, my husband, Sean, and I had a similar discussion. Sean heard that a relative was going to buy their kids the Nintendo Wii for Christmas, and he thought we should, too. Our kids had never even muttered the words Wii, let alone put it on their Christmas list.

16 and Pregnant: The Reality Show

On June 11, 2009, MTV debuted a reality show, "16 and Pregnant," which examines the lives of expecting teen mothers and the issues they face including gossip, marriage, adoption and financial problems.

Each episode focuses on one girl, who is in her sixth- to eighth-month of pregnancy and ending when the baby is a few months old. The first season featured six girls. Farrah was a cheerleader from Iowa. Ebony, from Colorado, dreams of going to the US Air Force Academy. Catelynn might have had the greatest impact on the audience because of her decision to give up her baby for adoption. All six girls returned for a reunion show with Dr. Drew Pinsky, who answered questions from the studio audience and e-mails.

Not surprisingly, the show created controversy, inspiring bloggers to plead with parents to forbid their children from watching the show. MTV, however, realized the sensitive nature of the series and worked with The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy to create free viewing guides to go along with each episode that could be used by educators, parents, and teen organizations to start a dialogue among teenage viewers.

MTV announced in July that it would produce a second season, but the debut date has yet to be determined.

To learn more about "16 and Pregnant", visit the show's web site to watch full-length episodes from season one for free online. To find the free viewing guides, visit It's Your Sex Life.

Check out ParentDish for additional "16 and Pregnant" coverage as well as related news and updates on Teens & Tweens and Pregnancy & Birth.

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